It is no secret that for women, foreplay is one of the most important parts of sex.
On average it takes a woman 20 minutes to climax and a man just five. So spend a bit of time testing out some different erogenous zones – she won’t know what hit her.
Here are eight secret erogenous zones she wants you to touch her.
Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., author of Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life told Men’s Health the ears are “portals” to two forms of arousal: physical and mental.
You can touch, bite or nibble the rim of her ear to get her going.
When you’re watching a movie together, gently tease and massage her palm as hands are dense with sensory receptors.
“It’s discreet enough for no one to notice, but enticing enough to awaken other parts of her body,” Lauren Slade, founder of the Universal College of Reflexology told Men’s Health.
As the inner part of a woman’s wrist is extremely sensitive to temperature, try licking it and blowing softly to create a cooling sensation.
4. Back of her knees
Trace your fingers down the back of her leg, down her thigh and calf and graze the back of her knee. she will most likely find this ticklish at first but won’t once she is more aroused.
To really get her going, stroke her thighs in the direction of her vagina, but stop before you reach it. Brush your fingers along the top of her thighs, still not touching to build arousal.
You can actually tell if someone is aroused by the colour of their lips. A deep red tint indicates arousal which you can achieve by softly licking her upper lip or tugging it gently between your lips.
Give your partner a massage to help her de-stress. Knead the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine and work your way down her back where the nerves become more sensitive. Not only will this turn her on, she will be relaxed and more likely to have a multiple orgasm.
When a woman orgasms, her brain shuts down which is probably why we find it so enjoyable. We can stop thinking for a few moments. To help her reach this, you can start the process by holding her head in your lap and massaging her forehead with your thumbs.
The key is in her lips. “When a person is aroused, he or she will relax the muscles that keep the jaw shut.”