When a woman is dating a mature man, she would notice some super qualities in him that makes him a better man than other men; though it would also take a mature woman to even understand that she has a mature man.
These are some things mature men have outgrown and don’t do in their relationships.
1. THEY DON’T FACE A RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM WITH ANGER
A mature man isn’t the type that would quickly vent his anger when his lady confronts him with an issue in their relationship. He wouldn’t get quickly angry just to cover up the issue, and he also knows how to manage his anger.
2. THEY DON’T HIT THEIR WOMAN
Any man who still hits his woman is immature. If he feels he’s so tough, he should go for a career in boxing; I believe he won’t last a round.
A mature man doesn’t hit his woman, no matter how angry he gets.
3. THEY DON’T RUN AWAY FROM RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
Mature men aren’t scared of facing their relationship issues; they know too well that the best way to solve a problem is to face it, rather than run away. Mature men don’t run away and wish the problems would fly away.
4. THEY DON’T THINK OF TODAY ONLY
Mature men don’t only think of today; they think of tomorrow and the future of their relationship. They just don’t live in today; they know what they want and they plan for it.
5. THEY DON’T TAKE THEIR WOMEN FOR GRANTED
Only boys take their women for granted; mature men don’t. Mature men understand the value of love, relationship and marriage — and they treat their women with value and respect.
6. THEY DON’T PLAY GAMES
Games are for immature men who can’t control themselves and for boys who feel it’s fun to have loads of women. Mature men don’t play games with other people’s emotions.
7. THEY DON’T DISRESPECT THEIR WOMEN
Mature men don’t see women as second-class citizens. They understand the importance of a woman and they treat their women with respect, both at home and when they are out.
8. THEY DON’T LET THEIR EGO COME IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP
Everyone has ego; some have it high, some have it low. But ego would easily kill a relationship, if you let it in. It’s ego that would make you stone-hearted and choose not to apologise even when you’re wrong.
Mature men might have ego, but they don’t bring it into their relationships.
9. THEY DON’T KEEP GRUDGES
Relationship is serious business, and grudges are for 10-year-olds. Mature men don’t keep grudges; they understand that it would hurt the relationship. They understand the importance of forgiveness and moving on.
10. THEY DON’T FEEL INSECURE
Insecurity is like a black stain on a white shirt; no matter how white the shirt is, the stain keeps it from glowing.
Insecurity can hurt your relationship; insecurity would make you feel jealous even when there shouldn’t be a reason to.
11. THEY DON’T SHY AWAY FROM RESPONSIBILITIES
Mature men don’t run away from their responsibilities; they rather try and fail than run away from their responsibilities.
12. THEY DON’T SEE ASKING FOR FORGIVENESS AS A BIG DEAL
Some men can’t apologise to their partner even when they are wrong. Mature men don’t see it as a big deal; they take responsibilities for their mistakes and say sorry.
They also forgive their partners without keeping scores.
Maturity isn’t learnt in a day, and being a mature man doesn’t mean you should be perfect, but it means you try to be your best in your relationship and learn from your mistakes.