Its always a great deal having a first date that leads to a second and many more. To have a woman fall for you on the first date requires a customized approach based on your date’s personality and her emotional and mental state. It all begins with confidence. You may need just a few simple items; Notebook & Local dining and entertainment guide.
Ask questions when you are planning your date. One of the most disastrous mishaps that can easily be avoided on a first date is planning to go someplace where the woman you are trying to win over will dislike or feel uncomfortable. It’s easy to find out about food allergies or even make a joke out of asking a woman what would be the worst possible date ever. Your humor and consideration will be appreciated.
Start to create a flexible itinerary for the date regardless of the time of day based on the information you obtained while asking her out. Use a local dining and entertainment guide to plan your date. If your date is happening early on, check out bistros, coffee shops, mid-day concerts or museum times and shows. If you have an evening engagement, check out restaurants or movie, theater or concert times. If you are prepared to explore one neighborhood in particular, you can spend more time on your date and less time traveling to get somewhere. Jot down the options in a mini notebook to stay organized.
Pay close attention to any signals your date may be directly or indirectly communicating while you’re on the date. If she is having a great time walking around museum exhibits, perhaps you might spend more time there than you anticipated. Or, if she decides that waiting an extra half hour for the movie that has really been on her to-do list is also okay. You don’t want to come off as rigid or as a man that lacks spontaneity. Being prepared and proposing a plan is impressive, but demonstrating the ability to handle the unexpected wins even more points.